My fiancé and I have a 10 month old baby together. She was not really planned but nonetheless we both love her, or at least I think he does, but something that he did is making me question it.
Yesterday I took my baby and my niece (4) to the children's museum because he had to work and we really didn't have anything else to do. After we left and I had dropped my niece off I noticed that I had like 20 missed calls from him. Apparently he got off work early and was wondering where we were (even though I had texted him before I picked up my niece and told him).
When we got home that's when all hell broke loose. I understand I should've been more aware of my phone, but I did not realize it was on silent and I was kind of distracted watching the kids. He went on and on about how selfish I've been acting lately, and how he wishes I would've never had our "stupid" baby, so things could be more 'stable'. Yes, he called the baby stupid.
By this time nothing I was saying was calming him down and what he said had pissed me off so I went upstairs to her nursery to pack a diaper bag, because I just wanted to get away from him. He followed us upstairs (I was holding her the whole time) and was still yelling, this time about how "I better not even think about leaving." I just ignored him, but apparently that made him even more mad. He picked up two of her toys and threw it at us, and luckily I saw it coming and was able to turn soon enough so it wouldn't hit her.
I was so shocked that he would actually throw something at us, and it looked as if he tried to hit our baby, the way he threw the toys it seemed obvious he was aiming for her, as she was on the side that he threw it on. We went over my sister's house and stayed the night, and of course he's been calling and texting my phone all night. He left voicemails about how he just lost control of himself, and that he didn't mean to scare us, and just wanted to see us again. I am kinda starting to wonder if I should call him back, because to be honest he's never done anything like that before. But then again I'm still a little pissed off by everything that happened. I am just doubting on whether I should give him another chance or not?